Where you go and what you do on a date should depend on how many dates you’ve been on as well as what your date is into.

That being said we wrote an entire article with 85 date ideas for SF. Here are just a few of our favorite date spots in the city:

-Chestnut Coffee Roastery in the Marina, followed by a Walk to the Palace of Fine Arts

-Swensen’s Ice Cream

-Visit Caffe Trieste and Walk Around North Beach

-Treasure Fest

-Seward Street Slides

-Alcatraz 

It’ll speed up the rate at which you find your ideal partner by months or even years. San Francisco is a unique place and probably one of the most difficult places to date if you’re a single woman in the US. 

We have an intimate understanding of the dating scene here and as such are uniquely equipped to help you find your perfect partner. Just check our local google and yelp reviews. 

In 2023, we introduced Dating Decoded for Women following 12 years of coaching men and gaining profound insights into their motivations for seeking love. Throughout this time, women who persisted in seeking our guidance received our coaching, leading us to recognize that we possess a unique perspective to offer women after devoting significant attention to men for so long.

There are about 125 men for every 100 women in SF. 

Women are severely outnumbered especially in the 25-50 age range.

Even though it appears that SF is a great place to date if you’re a single woman – the difficult part is finding relationship minded men who want to commit (that’s where we come in!). 

The San Francisco dating scene is dynamic, full of characters and highly competitive. Most quality men are working on their careers or building their start-up. 

It’s for this reason these coveted men are harder to nail down. Don’t worry – our coaching program is geared towards marketing YOU as the top talent, too. 

emlovz isn’t just one person, it’s an entire team of dating consultants and experts working relentlessly towards one goal: finding you an unbelievable partner.

Our dating coaches offer perspectives from both male and female points of view. Our coaches are also millennials as well as Gen-X and Gen-Zers. We know how to help you speak with the opposite sex regardless of their age, background, or love language. We’re both online dating coaches that will teach you the way of the swipe, but also teach you the in-real-life dating skills you need to know.

Our program, Dating Decoded for Women includes:

• Live Weekly Coaching Calls
  
• Robust Online Curriculum
  
• The emlovz workbook
  
• Private Coaching Sessions: 
  
  • Mock dates with Paul or Darshil
  • 1-on-1 coaching with Emyli or Thomas
  • Profile reviews with Audrey, Darshil, or Emyli
  • Style session with Hailey
  • Social media optimization with Mia
  • Confidence session or NYC strategy session with Darshil
  • Anxiety session with Renee
  • Sex & intimacy session with Tilly
• Accountability Buddies & Full Social Network

But perhaps most importantly, we won’t abandon you after a set period of time like other coaches. Enrolling in Dating Decoded means you’ll have access to our program (and coaching) for life. 

Upon joining Dating Decoded, you’ll seamlessly connect with a vibrant social network comprising of women all looking to re-write their love stories.

In addition, you’ll have the opportunity to join an accountability pod in most major metros, where our students gather for real-life meetups and support. While we cannot offer guarantees, if we identify a potential match for you within our men’s program, we’ll facilitate an introduction for you.

We use a multi-pronged approach to turn our female SF clients into expert daters.

Here’s how.

Community

Nobody wants to navigate the dating journey alone. That’s why we’ve cultivated a community of women just like you. To alleviate the challenges of being single, we pair students with an accountability buddy who understands your experiences firsthand. Our community offers a supportive environment for celebrating successes, sharing setbacks, forming connections, and receiving real-time feedback on any dating-related inquiries you may have.

Online Curriculum

Over the past 12 years, we’ve gained extensive insights into how men operate. To share everything we’ve learned and empower women, we’ve developed an online learning platform covering virtually every romantic topic imaginable. Whether it’s mastering the art of securing a second date or enhancing intimacy, our curriculum addresses all aspects of dating. This self-paced program is continuously updated and expanded to ensure it remains comprehensive and relevant.

Mock Dates

Wouldn’t it be amazing if after a date you could ask a man what he thought and actually receive honest feedback? That’s where our mock dates experts Darshil and Paul come in. After a mock date (either online or IRL) you’ll receive feedback on what worked and what needs improvement.

Weekly Strategy Sessions

We know how dynamic and nuanced dating is. That’s why every week you’ll have the opportunity to get coaching & feedback directly from me (live, uninterrupted).

Private Strategy Sessions

VIP members will receive 6 private 50 minute coaching sessions to be used with any emlovz coach.

You tell me.

Do you have an ounce of hope and 30 minutes a day to put the work in?

Then yes, dating coaching will work for you.

Our most successful clients are open to trying new things and are coachable.

That may mean stepping out of your comfort zone. It means really listening and absorbing our advice and applying it over and over again.

Our process has worked for thousands of men and women, why wouldn’t they work for you too?

We have worked with women from 18 to 75 years of age.

We give unlimited profile reviews as dating is an experiment, you’ll have to optimize as you go. Tweaking a profile every few weeks will help you appeal to the type of men you most want to attract.

We’re not about single sessions – we’re in it for the long haul. That means creating a meaningful and lasting transformation, not just dishing out some quick tips so you can get a couple more Tinder matches.

hat means creating a meaningful and lasting transformation, not just dishing out some quick tips so you can get a couple more Tinder matches.

It all starts with a 20-min onboarding call with an emlovz team member. 

During this call we’re going to get to know each other better and show you how to get the most from our program.

That means showing you how to access the weekly strategy sessions, gain access to our online community, and show you how to use our online learning platform.

Dating Decoded VIP is for clients that want a little extra help. When you sign up for our VIP program you’ll receive everything we’ve already touched and more.

Specifically, you’ll receive six 50-minute 1-on-1 sessions that can be used for the following:

• Mock dates with Paul and Darshil
• 1-on-1 coaching with Emyli or Thomas
• Profile reviews with Audrey, Darshil, or Emyli (me)
• Style session with Hailey
• Social media optimization with Mia
• Confidence session or NYC strategy session with Darshil
• Anxiety session with Renee
• Sex & intimacy session with Tilly

Use these six sessions in whatever way you think would most benefit you.

That means if you want to go on six mock dates with our dating expert Paul, go ahead and do so (just don’t fall in love!).

If this is the case, start by watching our program overview video first. For most men, watching this video is all it takes to determine if our program is the right fit for them.

You can also take a look at our brochure.

Click this magic blue link to schedule an intro call with an emlovz team member.